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Tips to help you get through property division during divorce

On Behalf of | Mar 27, 2018 | Divorce

Divorce is usually a difficult and drawn out process. For some people, it could take months to work out all the details. This is especially true when you own extensive assets and other property. For example, you may have a long argument ahead of you concerning who gets the dog or which one of you will keep the house in Manassas. You might spend a significant amount of time working out how to divide retirement accounts and your stock portfolio.

Many people look for ways to make their divorce process smoother, but, unfortunately, there are no quick fixes when it comes to divorce. However, the following property division tips might help make your divorce a little easier.

Consider bringing in a mediator

Even if both you and your soon-to-be ex-husband have your own divorce attorneys, you might want to consider bringing in a mediator to guide each side through the negotiations over the marital property. If the mediation is successful, it could help you avoid putting such decisions in the hands of a judge.

Pick your battles

While the piece of art hanging in the hallway might be sentimental to you, is it really worth fighting over it and risking the entire negotiation process? If the negotiations fall through and you end up letting a judge decide the outcome, keep in mind that he or she is not going to care if you have any kind of emotional attachments to various pieces of marital property. In order to avoid putting the bargaining process in jeopardy, be sure to pick your battles carefully. Stand firm on the truly important matters and be willing to let the small stuff go.

Do your research

Take the time to familiarize yourself with the divorce process in Virginia and how the courts handle property division. While your attorney will be an excellent source of information, do not hesitate to do your own research. At the very least, this will help you figure out what questions you need to ask in order to make decisions that are right for you.

If you are considering divorce, the above tips can help you through the property division process. In addition, be sure to utilize any other resources available in order to make your divorce as smooth as possible.


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